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Sunday, October 12, 2008

We're private!

Now I can post all of the juicy details of our lives!! Since we're really, really exciting and juicy... :) I'm not so sure y'all will like the new journal-like format of this blog, but it's what I wanted to do for our "family scrapbook/journal." So, here goes!
Oh, it has been a crazy week. Good, but crazy. Hyrum was gone for a week in Boston at a conference and came home Wednesday. It was so, so good to have him back. He traveled a lot when he worked for KPMG in Boise, but back then I only had 2 girls and it was just a different ballgame. I never want to be a single mom and I've just come to know even more that boys need their dad. I just can't duplicate that "arrrrgh" when he comes through the door and then the tackles along with it on the floor. Mostly, I was just scared for my stomach and protecting it and suggested that we read a book instead. Just not the same as Dad. And the support at bedtime? The 2 of us against 4 of them is just much more productive than me against 4 when it comes to getting teeth brushed, pajamas on, prayers, drinks, etc., etc. I also did not sleep well at all with him gone. I heard every little noise and then would wake up and then couldn't get back to sleep. I did get my blog launched though with all the time at night after the kids were down. We tried to have some fun too: lots of trips to the park, and of course a big batch of caramel corn and a fort with movies. We had to put Spencer asleep at the fort part though because he would coming in and jumping on it.



Lauren and Hailey have started a little tumbling class at the Rec Center and Logan has a "little kickers" soccer class there. It's just a once a week thing and they have loved it. I'll post some pictures later.

Saturday, we were thrilled that all of "our" teams won and that the Utes, Cougars, and Broncos are still all undefeated! We were also glad that Texas beat Oklahoma, because we're selling our tickets to the Texas Tech-Texas game, and now they're going for 150-200 bucks a piece. Hyrum has almost paid off having Dish Network by selling his season tickets individually to the Tech games. We were going to go to the Texas game, but I think we would rather have the $$ at this point and then go to a "smaller" game.

Today, we got some sad, sad news. A good friend of ours in the ward just got word this morning that his oldest son died in Iraq. He has a wife and 4 little kids and my heart just broke when I heard. He didn't die in combat, but had some kind of surgery complications with an emergency apendectomy over there~we don't know all the details. His dad is the former bishop of the ward, Hyrum is their home teacher, and they are just an awesome family. I tell my Dad he's like his clone~he brought us over a pie one night that he had made and invited us to go water-skiing. I was like, "are you my dad??" They have just been so good to us. If you have any extra prayer room, remember the Johnson family from Lubbock.

Sundays have been crazy. I have to admit, I kind of dread them. Hyrum's in the bishopric, I'm counselor in the Prim Presidency, and Spencer hates nursery, and it's from 11:30 to 2:30, right during his nap, if that give you any kind of clue of how it usually goes. We're trying to make it work, but somedays are definitely better than others. I had a little breakdown a couple of weeks ago during church when Logan and Spencer both didn't want to go to their classes, I was supposed to be conducting in Primary and started having back labor from holding a tantrum-throwing Spencer doing his arch, and Hyrum was meeting with some people. I just started crying and couldn't stop~I had to go get Hyrum and just walk around the temple until I got a hold of myself. It's been a lot better, and people really try to help, but Spencer is such a mama's boy right now, he won't let anyone touch him. We've got to get him to get a hold of the nursery thing. I hate being the mom of the screaming one in nursery. Lauren had a croupy cough and a fever last night, so I sent Hailey and Logan with Jacob and Carrie to sacrament meeting, then put Spencer down for his afternoon nap (usually abt. 3 hrs) and left him with Lauren while she watched a movie. I was worried because my cell started buzzing during sharing time and it was Lauren. The Prim President answered it, and it was Lauren wondering what channel the TV was supposed to be on for the DVD. She was much better today, but I didn't want to send her to church. I had sharing time in Primary today, so I didn't want to bail on that one. It was actually a glorious Sunday~I didn't have to wrangle with Logan and Spencer in sacrament meeting, everything went great in Primary, nursery was peaceful because Spence wasn't there, he was still sleeping when we got back, and Hyrum came home early. I'm holding my breath for next Sunday though....

7 comments:

Kristine said...

Congratulations on the successful transition of both blogs!! I have to say I read this post and my emotions were all over the place with it. I am so sorry for the loss of the soldier. We have 2 men in our ward that have served and I can only imagine... I also got the "I miss Melissa & Hyrum living close" feeling all over again. I wish I was there to tackle your boys and take shifts in nursery as Braden still needs some assistance as well! I didn't even know you were in the presidency! What a woman! Sure love you and as always, you are in my prayers! Love you!

Amy said...

Oh I just want to give you a big hug right now!
And AMEN to the KPMG days being a thing of the past! Chad started traveling more when he was still at DBSI and I dreaded every trip. Pretty much for the exact same reasons as you. I don't sleep one bit while he is away. So far this new job has no traveling so we are loving life thus far.

Mandy said...

Wow, wow, wow, what a week you had! My heart is broken for the Johnson family. It's hard enough to have your husband gone for a week! All those moms around the U.S. with husbands in IRAQ and husbands who end up dying over there, My heart just aches for them. I thank the Lord for the Gospel in my life every day. When it comes to nursery for us, Owen JUST started accepting nursery for the past month. Poor Heber missed Sunday school and Elders Quorum for a little over a Year because I was serving in Primary, and couldn't help out. Now that I have a new calling and can go to Sunday school and Relief society, Heber doesn't need my help. :) I'm sure that wasn't much comfort for you, sorry. :) Well, I think you are pretty close to Wonder Woman in my eyes. I can't wait to see baby #5!

Jamie Smith said...

I am scared to have more kids for that EXACT reason. Lucky me, I am in the YW presidency so Rod always gets Lucy for the third hour (which is right in the middle of HER nap time!) Lucky for me!

Shandy said...

my heart goes out to that family that lost their son (and to his wife and children ... so very sad :(
and I felt like I was reading about myself when you were describing Spencer not wanting to go to nursery and having church right during nap time! If you ever want someone to truly sympathize with... call me ;)
loved hearing about your week and seeing your awesome pics (are those taken with your newest purchase??... yes.. you heard jealousy in my voice on that one - LOL)
chat later~

ben and nat said...

wow! COngrats to Hyrum ,Too bad we aren't in the ward anymore. I thought my sundays were bad with Ben being asst ward clerk and having to stay after. I am sorry and hope that it gets better for you.YOu guys were cool we should of done more stuff with you!!miss you.So sad about the Johnsons, I am good friends with amy his wife. I can only imagine her grief.

Anonymous said...

I wish we were in the same ward still so I could come sit by you in Sacrament meeting and play with Spencer in nursery- because you know he would stay with me :)- I sure think you do great- thanks for your example of service!